Yesterday, I attended a health fair and made a lot of contacts. Afterward, I did some more work and then I had a nice bike ride with my family. Before dinner, I spent a while chatting with my wife. Everything was going well until after dinner when my wife and I got into an argument. We got mad at each other, said some less than nice things and then went our separate ways for a while. By bed time, we had kissed good night and said we loved each other. Now it is another day. What happened yesterday is behind us (which is not to say we did not learn from it) and what happens today is totally separate. This is the way the we have chosen to be and it is serving us well. Will we argue again? You bet! But we have learned to live in the present by letting it go. This is good for any relationship!