I'm talking about your own. The way it works is that we become what we envision (this includes all the senses). If you see yourself as a "success," then you will be. You wan to meet Mister or Ms. right? Envision what that is (again use all your senses). This can also work with existing partners. Want to be a success in business? Envision it. To do this you must have some concept of what this means to you and you must repeat it regularly. You can use your past, the present or even another person's example of success as long as it fits in realistically with your life. Want to be a "success?" Just practice envisioning it and it will happen!