Ever have a certain person that just bugs the crap out of you? No matter what they do it just annoys you? Ever think that if that person could either change (or just disappear) that your life would be so much better? I think we've all been there. But maybe a new approach would be to realize that the chance of that person changing (or leaving) is very slim. A better way of thinking might be to realize that you can only change yourelf! Does this mean completely changing you personality? No! But it could mean a change in the way that you approach that person (or situation). Not everyone is going to get along with you. If you have an issue with someone, it may be real or perceived! The best answer is to try taking a look at the person in the mirror first!