So many of us put our lives on hold for all the wrong reasons. We're afraid, we don't have the time, the money. It takes too much effort.We put up these fences! These are not reasons, they are excuses. Reasons are few and far between; they are legitimate answers for why something occurs. For example, the reason it rained was due to the low pressure system. An excuse would be I can't play football because I'm too small (BTW this 5'4" person DID play football and was pretty good at it!!). What things are you putting off due to excuses? Do you wish you could change that? You can by being honest with yourself. You must realize that what is preventing you from acting is most likely only an excuse ( a easily mounatble fence)and not a real reason.