I think we have all been in social situations where we hear someone talking about another person. Maybe this is a person we do not know, but we are getting an impression of them from another person. It’s really great when someone speaks highly of someone else. It certainly feels good to be the person who is being spoken well of. But what about the people who are not being spoken well of. I’ve had friends tell me that they’ve heard bad things about other people, people that I have never met. My “go to” here is that I do not judge other people based on the opinions of those who may not like them, or speak harshly of them. I go by my own personal experience with them. Wouldn’t it be nice to think that we spoke highly of everyone.
Of course, this is not always true, but we should never judge a person based on someone else’s opinion, we should form an opinion, based on our own experience. After all, this is something that we would want for ourselves.
Many people go around, not realizing the effect that they have on others or what it feels like at times to be on the receiving end of judgment. Whether it’s in person or just a rumor, it definitely has an effect, and it does not feel good. Like the old expression says, if you don’t have something to say, don’t say it. And of course, if you do have something good to say, shout it from the rooftops.
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